Manage Your Mind: The Mental Fitness Guide (Third Edition)

Manage Your Mind: The Mental Fitness Guide is a trusted self-help resource that equips clients with effective strategies for building psychological resilience and improving wellbeing.

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What to expect from this guide

Chapter 1: The scientific background: knowing what works

Chapter 2: Valuing and understanding yourself

Chapter 3: The value and practice of acceptance

Chapter 4: The value and practice of kindness

Chapter 5: Building self-esteem and self-confidence

Chapter 6: Taking a positive approach

Chapter 7: Finding new perspectives

Chapter 8: Using your head: thinking and deciding

Chapter 9: Developing useful habits

Chapter 10: Goals and how to use them

Chapter 11: Using time well

Chapter 12: Keeping physically well

Chapter 13: Increasing the chance of happiness

Chapter 14: Treating yourself right

Chapter 15: Becoming more creative

Chapter 16: Good relationships: the principles

Chapter 17: Assertiveness

Chapter 18: Negotiation skills

Chapter 19: Understanding voices from your past

Chapter 20: Recognizing that you can change: facing problems

Chapter 21: Problem- solving: a strategy for change

Chapter 22: Stress: balancing life’s demands

Chapter 23: Getting the better of worry: defeating the alarmist

Chapter 24: Overcoming fears and avoidance: social anxiety and phobias

Chapter 25: Dealing with panic

Chapter 26: Depression: the common cold of the mind

Chapter 27: Digging yourself out of depression

Chapter 28: Feeling angry and keeping calm

Chapter 29: Loss and bereavement

Chapter 30: Stepping away from the past

Chapter 31: Recent traumatic events and their aftermath

Chapter 32: Chronic ill health

Chapter 33: Breaking habits and overcoming addictions

Index

Front Matter

Overview

Manage Your Mind: The Mental Fitness Guide is an invaluable and comprehensive resource for therapists and clients that aims to enhance psychological well-being using effective therapeutic tools and strategies. Authored by renowned clinicians Gillian Butler, Nick Grey, and Tony Hope, this third edition combines cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) with modern insights from positive psychology, mindfulness, neuroscience, and health psychology.

The guide is structured in a modular format, allowing for flexible use. Drawing on over two decades of clinical experience, this edition expands on the original CBT foundation by incorporating strategies that promote flourishing and meaningful living - not just symptom reduction.

Published under license from Oxford University Press, this title is now available through Psychology Tools, providing therapists and clients with a powerful resource for promoting mental wellness across a variety of presentations.

Why Use This Resource?

Manage Your Mind: The Mental Fitness Guide provides a practical framework for addressing a wide range of psychological difficulties.

  • Combines CBT techniques with newer developments such as acceptance-based strategies.  
  • Offers practical, problem-specific interventions for a variety of difficulties, including anxiety, low mood, and trauma.  
  • Includes chapters on increasing happiness, enhancing creativity, and developing healthy relationships. 
  • Supports symptom reduction and personal growth.

Key Benefits

Comprehensive

Covers a wide spectrum of client needs and psychological difficulties.

Accessible

Written in an accessible, easy-to-understand style.

Integrative

Combines CBT with acceptance, mindfulness, and positive psychology interventions.

Trusted

Written by renowned expert clinicians.

Who is this for?

Depression

Addresses low mood and reduced motivation.

Anxiety disorders

Supports work with panic, worry, phobias, and social anxiety.

Trauma

Includes chapters dedicated to traumatic experiences.

Substance misuse

Supports clients struggling with problematic habits and addictions.

Personal development

Includes chapters on time management, creativity, happiness, and self-care.

Integrating it into your practice

01

Assess

Identify your client’s difficulties and personal goals.

02

Select

Choose chapters that match your client's needs.

03

Share

Review relevant chapters in-session or assign for homework.

04

Reflect

Discuss what the client has learned from the resource.

05

Review

Revisit relevant sections as clients face new challenges or transitions.

Theoretical Background & Therapist Guidance

Manage Your Mind: The Mental Fitness Guide draws primarily from cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and is enriched by developments in contextual CBT, such as mindfulness, acceptance-based approaches, and values clarification. The guide incorporates foundational strategies like behavioral activation and graded exposure, while also introducing techniques grounded in neurobiology, behavioral economics, and health psychology.

The book is organized into three sections:

  • Part I: Making sense – helps clients understand themselves, develop self-acceptance, and identify core values.  
  • Part II: Making your way – offers practical tools to foster emotional balance, develop positive habits, increase happiness, and navigate relationships.  
  • Part III: Overcoming difficulties – provides targeted interventions for specific psychological challenges, including anxiety, depression, trauma, addictions, and health problems. 

Each section can be used independently or as part of an integrated treatment plan. 

What's inside

  • 33 accessible and informative chapters, 
  • Strategies for identifying values, building habits, improving emotional resilience, and managing distress.  
  • Helpful worksheets and reflective exercises to support change.  
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FAQs

Yes, the guide includes chapters that target difficulties like depression, trauma, and addiction, and can be used alongside formal therapy.
Yes, while it can be introduced by therapists, it is also written for direct use by clients who wish to build skills on their own.
This third edition incorporates the latest research, including insights from positive psychology and contextual behavioral science, and emphasizes not just recovery but flourishing.

How This Resource Improves Clinical Outcomes

Manage Your Mind: The Mental Fitness Guide helps therapists:

  • Deliver effective, structured, and flexible interventions across a wide diagnostic range.  
  • Equip clients with helpful tools for improving their mood, motivation, relationships, and overall wellbeing.
  • Increase client mastery and autonomy by providing structured, self-help resources that can be used independently.

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