Audio Collection: Psychology Tools For Developing Self-Compassion

This audio collection is designed to introduce self-compassion skills taking compassion focused therapy (CFT) approach. It offers structured exercises that help individuals cultivate self-compassion.

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1. About this audio collection (MP3)

2. What is compassion, why do I need it, and how might it help me? (MP3)

3. Living with a tricky brain (MP3)

4. The three systems (MP3)

5. Attention and mindfulness: the foundations of compassion (MP3)

6. The spotlight exercise (MP3)

7. Mindfulness of sounds and thoughts (MP3)

8. Mindfulness of body (MP3)

9. Mindfulness of breathing (MP3)

10. Mindful walking (MP3)

11. Developing your soothing system (MP3)

12. Body posture (MP3)

13. Facial expression (MP3)

14. Voice tone (MP3)

15. Breathing to activate your soothing system (MP3)

16. Combining soothing breathing with a soothing smell (MP3)

17. The power of imagery and memory (MP3)

18. CFT calm place (MP3)

19. A memory of feeling cared for (MP3)

20. A memory of caring for others (MP3)

21. Developing your compassionate mind (MP3)

22. 'Trying on' the qualities of compassion (MP3)

23. Being a compassionate person (MP3)

24. Developing your compassionate other (MP3)

25. Broadening your perspective (MP3)

26. Directing your compassionate mind (MP3)

27. Compassion to others (MP3)

28. Receiving compassion from your ideal other (MP3)

29. Focusing compassion on your self (MP3)

30. Compassionate letter writing (MP3)

31. Wrap-up (MP3)

Overview

Self-compassion is a helpful skill for emotional well-being. The Psychology Tools For Developing Self-Compassion Audio Collection provides a structured approach to developing self-compassion using principles from compassion focused therapy (CFT). CFT is an evidence-based psychological approach that integrates evolutionary, cognitive, and affective neuroscience to help individuals cultivate compassion and alleviate high levels of shame and self-criticism.

This resource is designed for either independent use and integration into therapy. It consists of guided exercises divided into six sections, each addressing different aspects of self-compassion, from understanding compassion to engaging in mindfulness, imagery, and self-directed compassion practices.

Why Use This Resource?

This collection offers a systematic, research-backed approach to self-compassion.

  • Helps individuals develop self-compassion in an experiential way.
  • Works from foundational principles to more advanced practices.
  • An excellent adjunct to clinical work.
  • Suitable for therapists, clients, and self-guided practice.

Key Benefits

Structure

Organized into six sections, building skills progressively.

Experiential

Engages clients with mindfulness, guided imagery, and self-compassion techniques.

Practicality

Includes experiential exercises to develop self-compassion skills.

Effectiveness

Grounded in CFT research, designed to counteract self-criticism and promote emotional well-being.

Who is this for?

Transdiagnostic

Suitable for most clients irrespective of diagnostic status.

Perfectionism

Helps individuals reduce harsh self-evaluations.

Burnout And Stress

Supports emotional regulation and recovery from stress.

Low Self-Esteem

Cultivates self-acceptance and reduces self-criticism.

Depression

Supports emotional resilience and self-kindness.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

Aids in reducing shame and self-blame.

Integrating it into your practice

01

Educate

Introduce the concept of self-compassion and the role of CFT.

02

Practice

Assign guided exercises for between-session practice.

03

Reflect

Discuss experiences with exercises to enhance development of self-compassion.

04

Maintain

Encourage ongoing practice to develop long-term self-compassion skills.

Theoretical Background & Therapist Guidance

Compassion focused therapy (CFT) is an integrative psychological approach that helps individuals respond to distress, shame, and self-criticism by cultivating compassion for themselves and others. Drawing on insights from evolutionary psychology, affective neuroscience, and attachment theory, CFT supports the development of a more balanced emotional system by strengthening the brain’s soothing and affiliative responses. This audio collection applies CFT principles through guided experiential exercises that help individuals shift from harsh self-judgment to a more kind, grounded, and emotionally regulated way of relating to themselves and others.

What's inside

  • An introduction to compassion focused therapy and the science of compassion.
  • Attention and mindfulness exercises.
  • Practices for activating the soothing system.
  • Imagery and memory-based exercises for cultivating compassion.
  • Exercises for developing a compassionate mindset and identity.
  • Directing compassion towards self and others.
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FAQs

This resource is ideal for clients struggling with self-criticism, low self-worth, or emotional dysregulation. It is also useful for clinicians seeking guided exercises to integrate into therapy sessions.
Yes, while it is designed to support therapy, individuals can use it independently for personal growth and self-compassion training.
It is recommended to work through each section over one to two weeks, practicing exercises multiple times before moving forward.
Yes, many exercises are well-suited for group settings, allowing participants to share experiences and support one another.

How This Resource Improves Clinical Outcomes

Clinicians and clients using this resource can expect:

  • Exercises specifically target self-attacking thoughts and promote self-compassion.
  • Strengthens the ability to manage distress with self-soothing strategies.
  • Helps clients respond to challenges with greater self-compassion.
  • Encourages lasting change through structured practice and integration into daily life.

References And Further Reading

  • Gilbert, P. (2014). The origins and nature of compassion focused therapy. British Journal of Clinical Psychology, 53(1), 6–41. https://doi.org/10.1111/bjc.12043
  • Gilbert, P. (2020). Compassion: From its evolution to a psychotherapy. Frontiers in Psychology, 11, Article 586161. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2020.586161
  • Irons, C., & Beaumont, E. (2017). The compassionate mind workbook: A step-by-step guide to developing your compassionate self. Robinson.
  • Irons, C., & Heriot‐Maitland, C. (2021). Compassionate mind training: An 8‐week group for the general public. Psychology and Psychotherapy: Theory, Research and Practice, 94(3), 443–463. https://doi.org/10.1111/papt.12315
  • Leboeuf, I., Andreotti, E., Irons, C., Beaumont, E., & Antoine, P. (2022). A randomized controlled study of a French compassionate mind training. Mindfulness, 13(11), 2891–2903. https://doi.org/10.1007/s12671-022-01974-2
  • Savari, Y., Mohagheghi, H., & Petrocchi, N. (2021). A preliminary investigation on the effectiveness of compassionate mind training for students with major depressive disorder: A randomized controlled trial. Mindfulness, 12(5), 1159–1172. https://doi.org/10.1007/s12671-021-01582-6