Broadening Your Perspective

The ‘compassionate self’ is a part of us which can contain any strong emotional reactions in a wise and grounded way, and it can be cultivated and developed with practice. Being connected with your compassionate self encourages a pattern of thinking, feeling, and acting which can have a powerful, positive impact on our wellbeing and how we deal with difficulties. There are a variety of exercises that can be used to develop your compassionate self. 

Broadening Your Perspective is an exercise taken from the Psychology Tools For Developing Self-Compassion audio collection. This guided imagery exercise helps the listener to view themselves from a broader, more distanced perspective through the eyes of their ‘compassionate self’. Viewed from this vantage point, it becomes easier to see that many of aspects of their personality and current emotional experience are the result of factors outside of their control. The listener is encouraged to accept these issues with compassion, rather than blaming or criticizing themselves.

The Psychology Tools For Developing Self-Compassion audio collection is for anyone who wants to learn more about the ideas and practices of compassion focused therapy. It has been designed to be versatile, so it is suitable to support work with therapists who have been trained in compassion focused therapy, or to be used as a stand-alone collection of exercises. To assist the integration of the exercises into their clinical work, therapists can download the scripts for each exercise and use them in-session.

Individual tracks from the audio collection can be downloaded as .MP3 files, which can be played in most media player apps. 

The simplest way to share an audio track with your clients is by using the Psychology Tools ‘Email a client’ function. After obtaining their consent, you can send it directly from this page by clicking ‘Send securely to my client’. Your client will receive a secure email containing a unique link, and when they click the link, they will be prompted to download the .MP3 file onto their device.

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